"Anyway after hearing what you said it got me thinking for a bit. I didn't wanna say too much because I was afraid that I may come off as objectifying you. The truth is I think that you're really beautiful, and I'm sure you feel the same way about yourself to a certain extent. But really, you're easily an 8 at least in my books. I may have a thing for girls who are taller and bigger so I might be biased but still. I would give you a second look if I passed you on the streets. Fo sho. Appearances are superficial, it can be changed anytime through money or time or effort but as the cliché goes, it's what matters inside. You have a great personality to boot with so everything else is a bonus. Your smile, your sweet voice, your silly habits. It all equates to who you are. And that's beautiful. Don't go on worrying about the little things, don't compare yourself with other girls. The only comparison you should be making is between the present you and the person you were yesterday. Strive to become a better person each day, look at the bigger picture and work towards the things you wanna accomplish in life. Anything else is just a distraction from your main purpose in life."
I'm so honoured to have you think of me in this light.
I might have confidence to a certain extent or a little more confident than how I was in the past, but there are still so many flaws about myself that I cannot overlook.
Yet, I'm so thankful that all my friends appreciate me and embrace myself better than I do my own. And I'm thankful too that you think that I'm beautiful in my own way.
I replayed your words countlessly in my mind and I'm gaining so much strength from it.
Today I come to terms that no one will ever be the best and everyone have their own flaws which we will never know about. It's no use comparing yourself to another, you'll only be best at being yourself.
In the big expanse of this universe, each of us are just a small unrecognisable speck. But eventually, we are the only ones who are going to make our own lives meaningful and worthwhile.
Nobody else can do it for you.
And even more so, it won't be do any good to feel inferior just because someone else has it better than you.
It's up to your own efforts and hard work, as long as you put your mind to it, your goals are achievable.
Even if they don't work out, it doesn't mean that it's because you are lacking.
Sometimes, fate and luck plays a part too.
You will get what you deserve at the right timing!
And it's always the experience that is more fulfilling. Once you reach your destination, it will be the start of a new chapter. Live in the moment and enjoy every good encounter that comes by in your journey.
Never forget too that there will always be at least that one steadfast friend who will support you no matter what you do. (:
I'm no Barbie girl, and I don't need to be one either.
